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Judy David's avatar

Why am I not surprised that you wrote this piece about the genuine, loving moments of parenting and grandparenting that make a difference. I loved this piece!

Ellen Galinsky's avatar

Oh Judy, what a wonderful thing to say. Reminds me so much of The Preschool Years.

Robert Sherman's avatar

If we don't inquire, and inquire well, we'll never know how others have processed and cataloged their experiences with us. Sounds soppy, but is surely correct. Enjoyed the piece and young people's frequently surprising reflections!

Ellen Galinsky's avatar

I always think of Dan Stern (University of Geneva) who said that basic for successful relationships is feeling known and understood. I, too, find the kids' reflections surprising and so do most parents when I speak.

Be A Super Dad's avatar

Absolutely loved this Ellen. Such a thought provoking piece. It's promted me to have these conversations with my own kids.

Ellen Galinsky's avatar

How wonderful. Love to hear back what you learn and so appreciate all you do!!

Charlene Margot's avatar

Thank you, Ellen, for this profound reminder of how the little moments matter!

Charlene Margot's avatar

We sent copies of your book to all of our Advisory Board members -- they were very happy to receive them! Happy New Year

Ellen Galinsky's avatar

Oh WOW!! I am honored...your Advisory Board is amazing. Thank you and Happy New Year to you.

The Informed Perspective's avatar

And most of the memories will be ones with human contact and affection! Experiences that the digital world cannot replicate!